From Compliance to Commitment – A Team’s Journey

Derek Wolfe readily admits that during his early years of coaching baseball he chose the role of intimidator. "With the right posture and tone of voice a high school coach can intimidate any player and use threats to get the results he wants." Says Wolfe, "I just wanted the wins."However he found the results weren't satisfying, the kids didn't respect him, and he didn't necessarily have winning seasons anyway. Then he did the most courageous thing a coach can ever do.He changed his whole approach -- and now his program is the talk of the school. Players who once gave him compliance with some jogging, now offer him commitment with their hustle.

It started with one basic decision: all coaching directives would be positive in nature; telling players what changes to make and how to improve a skill, but avoid giving attention to what players did wrong. There would be no ridicule, no put-downs, and no attempts to embarrass a player for his performance. Furthermore, players were not allowed to be negative toward each other. The ball field would be a "sanctuary" -- a safe place where players could come to work hard on their skills, receive instruction, but not destructive treatment at the hands of coaches or other players.

At the end of each week players were required to stand in front of their teammates and give a personalized answer to four questions.

  1. How would you rate you attitude this week?
  2. How would you rate your performance this week?
  3. How was your progress and the help you received this week?
  4. Did you receive enough repetitions on the skills you're trying to improve?

This fundamental change was a challenge because of the deeply ingrained habits of catching players doing something wrong by coaches, and the relentless harassment of players toward each other. But over the season new attitudes replaced the old. The focus on agreed-upon standards -- i.e. 12 seconds on and off the field between innings -- gained traction. In the end, a team that had only three returning seniors won the District championship game and went on to the Regional tournament.

The parents and players of Trinity Prep High School in Orlando, Florida report that the baseball program produced for them the most rewarding experience they've ever had.  Several players, who never expected it, went on to play at Division 1 universities the following fall. Most importantly to Derek Wolfe, he knows he's much closer to achieving his real assignment as a coach -- building the character of young men so they can win at life, not just at sports.

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Founder of Growing Champions for Life, David helps sports parents and coaches incorporate positivity and persistence into their communication with the young athletes who count on their encouragement and guidance. An eight-time national water skiing champion, five-time national record holder in water ski jumping, former World Championship U.S. Water Ski Team coach, and proud professional sports parent, he understands first-hand the challenges and rewards of competition. His extensive experience as a corporate leadership coach for Nextel, Sprint, Allstate, Balfour Beatty, The Villages and other companies provides David with unique insight into the skills needed to excel in sports, business and life. He brings an athlete's discipline, a coach's inspiration, and a parent's practical experience to his mission to grow not just champion young athletes, but holistically well-rounded individuals equipped for lifelong excellence.

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